Day 2 — Values
Time: ~65 min · Goal: name what you stand for.
Values are not aspirations. They’re the principles you actually use to evaluate whether a life feels right. Today you’ll narrow a long list down to 5 ranked, operationalized values.
1. Brainstorm from the list (15 min)
Open the values starter list and circle (or copy below) every word that feels like you — not who you wish you were, who you actually are at your best. Add your own.
Words that feel like me:
words: ________
2. Narrow to 10 (10 min)
From your circled list, pick the 10 that feel most non-negotiable.
The test: if a value were taken from your life, would it feel like a loss of self?
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3. Narrow to 5 (15 min)
The hardest step. Force-rank down to 5. When two compete, ask: which one, if I had to give it up, would hurt more?
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4. Operationalize (15 min)
For each of your 5, write a one-sentence definition in your own words (not the dictionary’s), what it looks like when you’re living it, and what it looks like when you’re betraying it.
Value 1 — __
- My definition: __
- Living it looks like: __
- Betraying it looks like: __
Value 2 — __
- My definition: __
- Living it looks like: __
- Betraying it looks like: __
Value 3 — __
- My definition: __
- Living it looks like: __
- Betraying it looks like: __
Value 4 — __
- My definition: __
- Living it looks like: __
- Betraying it looks like: __
Value 5 — __
- My definition: __
- Living it looks like: __
- Betraying it looks like: __
5. Conflict test (10 min)
Values clash in real decisions. Take your ranking from step 3 and test it against 3 recent hard decisions you made. Does your stated ranking match how you actually chose? If not, your stated ranking is wrong — adjust it.
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- The value I actually chose by: __
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- The value I actually chose by: __
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- The value I actually chose by: __
Adjusted ranking (if it changed):
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✓ End of Day 2 deliverable
Your 5 core values, ranked, each with a personal definition. → Continue to Day 3 — Passions.